Oh man, that is horrible!! I don't know how your sister and brother can be so cold,inconsiderate and downright mean.
I don't know what to tell you, but the heck with your sister and her worrying about it being in the newspaper, you do what you need to do for yourself. Sure easy for her to say "move on", okay, and in time you will, but for now, precious items of times,memories, have been robbed from you, this is something that one does not "just get over".
I bet she'd tell the hurricane victims that lost everything to "just get over it", huh?
It is sad when the passing of parent(s) ends with siblings fighting over stuff, I hope you'll be able to find peace, and maybe even something stuck in the rubble that belonged to you, please take care. If possible, take legal action on
your brother, I don't like to say things like this, but there is no excuse or reason,for what he did,he should of at least notified you before he knocked down the building(s)
giving you time to gather up your stuff.
"Should of", I know it is past tense and can't replace or undo what is done, but perhaps teach him a good lesson, a person is never too old to learn.
Wishing you luck and inner strength, please know we are here.
Love,
DE



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