Thank you all for the advice and yes he has admitted that he has a problem and his drinking has gotten out of hand. I am sticking to my guns and it hurts bad to be without my husband. He calls me everynight before bed and one thing I do know is that he has not been drinking since that night. He also understands that if the drinking starts again I am leaving for good. No more chances.

My husband is a very honest person even when he was at his drunkest (not sure if that's a word) he has always been honest about everything so I am taking him at his word. I am not going home yet but honestly I don't know how much longer I can be apart from him. It's very lonely. This may sound kind of corny but he is the only man that I have ever given a second chance with pretty much anything. I am confident that that means something that I am willing to let my own rules slide. I am also aware that if he starts the drinking again I have to leave and then I will file for a divorce and that will be that. I will keep you posted..

p.s. He and I have talked about AA and he said that if it gets too hard to handle on his own that he will go to an AA meeting here in town (as long as I go with him) I am confident that he means every word because he knows that I am dead serious.