How very strange, a friend and I were discussing this on the way home from work. It started off as a conversation about gay people being attracted to their same sex friends and ended as a discussion about anyone of any sexuality and there really isn't any difference.
The conclusion we (and we are both older and have more years 'experience' than you) came to? If you have a great friendship don't ruin it for a sexual encounter, it's a great way to destroy a friendship even if you are atracted to each other.
You do sound very mature and the fact that you are questioning things before anything happens is impressive.
I hope whatever you choose makes you happy. Good Luck
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