My 18 year old daughter is very aware of what I'm going through and she is supportive, but I worry about what it might be doing to her. She is very reclusive, always has been. Is that my fault? I don't know. She doesn't trust people. I can't say that I blame her.

My 10 year old son - I don't know. He's well, a problem. My husband and I have had issues with him since he started school - constantly in trouble, been tested for ADD/ADHD twice, talks back, argues, bargains...the list goes on. I don't know what to do with him. As I said, I'm messed up...