I am brand new to this but really need some outside advice. My husband and I have 3 beautiful kids one of which we adopted. We are now going have our latest addition baptized.(the adopted child) For financial reasons we dicided not to have the big traditional hoopla we did with the first two. So to keep it simple we invited Grandparents, Godparents and ourselves. Here is my problem. My husband wants to invite his brother which happens to be the biological father to our son. I do not get along with this man and he is not welcome in my home at this time.(he is into drugs and alchol) Also I have brothers and sister on my side with kids. What do I tell them. Am I being unreasonable? We made the decision along with the help of the agency not to treat the bio dad any differently. He is considered the Uncle to all our kids. My husband stopped talking to me and now he wants me to cancel the baptizm. I don't know what to do.

Thanks so much,
Busymom123