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Originally Posted by treehouse
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Do you know what words would have felt better? Sometimes when T gives me something and it's not quite right, it helps me figure out what it is I *really* need, and then I'm able to ask for it. It's just so hard sometimes to figure out what it IS.
  
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Thanks for the hugs.
Ugh. I don't know that anything she could have said would have felt satisfying, because...well, regardless, the relationship is changing and things won't ever be quite the same. And that hurts. And I think it's just going to hurt for a while. It'd be one thing if our therapy was organically coming to an end....or even to a stopping point. But we're really in the thick of it.
I want to get up the courage to ask her for something to take with me--a letter in her handwriting or something of significance that I can look at and be reminded of her care. Has anyone ever asked for something like that from their T?