Oh, Solar, this has happened to me and it is VERY VERY upsetting. I think I would further discuss this with T if you like her. I think being people who are so used to not trusting ourselves, it is almost like more trauma to go ahead and invalidate what we know to be true. This kind of a thing is a major trigger for me. I listen carefully so I know what someone said.

In this case, with a T, it is even more difficult to say "yes, you said that." I never did with my previous T (desk-t) but she deserved for me to have that kind of a converstion with her. I say, dont drop it. Tlak abuot the last sentence you wrote here with her.