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Originally Posted by Solarwind
what would you do if your T denies saying something that you *know* T said and it was upsetting?
and you talked about it, but T still denied T said it.
relationship is new..some other things about T are ok so far
trust your self or question your self?
this feels so major to me, but i wonder if i should just drop it, continue on, and be more cautious and weary (which i already am alot!)
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This happened to me once and I told him that I wish I had a tape recorder because if he didn't say it that's what I heard. He did say it! But I was willing to pretend that I "may have" heard it wrong.
This happened after I had been seeing him for about a year. Had it happened earlier, I would have stopped seeing him. But, after a year I knew that his good parts overrode this one misstatement on his part.