This is a very interesting thread to me. I dont know what to do in that situation.I like the way SUnny handles it, what is T (or anyone) thinking in that moment, but I may think to myself that they DO mean what I heard that they are just getting defensive and taking it back now that they got caught. ANd that is not to say that the person or T really remembers that they did say it and is consciously trying to cover up. Its just that they may want to present a "better" or nicer thought/opinion buy what they really think or feel is what I first heard. That is what would go thru my mind even though Id like to start fresh from today.