Hello Broken wing,

Your posts are always a bit worrying. I dont mean that in a bad way, I know you are trying to care for your friend but are you a therapist? Do you have training? I think "calling out the alters" is dangerous if its not part of a structured therapy session/programme. You would not know what was going to happen or how to deal with it. What if an angry person came out? Waht if someone came out that your friend was not ready for? What if someone came out whom you didnt like? Therapists work hard to show no preferences, to accept everyone, but you might just decide you dont like the person who comes forward and dont want to be around to help then where would your friend be?

I hope you dont take offence, Im not intending any but I wonder why you would even be thinking about this.

All the girls