Hi Exotic Flower,

I'm glad to see you are still sticking around for a while. I really hope this can get worked out.

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Like I said I can't discuss why I am upset, only that this place or fourum is not a place I can discuss my issues anymore. My issues are too triggering for a place like this, it can't support what I have been through. It is upsetting to me because this place has been like a home for me. BUt as I get into my past, most of the stuff is too triggering to post about here, so I can't no longer because of the rules. Even when I put a trigger warning on it.

I don't understand this, because the post that started all of this wasn't even about your issues but about something you read in the newspaper.

I remember seeing threads started by you in which you talked about specific things that happened with your old T .....it seemed like you were able to find people who could relate and support you.

I guess what I am trying to say is that maybe there could be some middle ground.
if, as you say, this place felt like a home to you - then wouldn't you want to help take care of others by not posting threads with triggering titles? Wouldn't it be ok to title a thread 'Extreme abuse by a therapist' or something that doesn't get into specific details? That way it helps people who are trying to use self-care. Now that I know what some of your specific triggers are (which you mentioned in your post) - I would never post a thread with that in the title.

From my perspective, your views and issues have been respected and appreciated here. In fact - some of your posts and ideas were put in a sticky in the sub-forum here!!! That is pretty significant, if you ask me, and shows a lot of support for what you've been through and how you are trying to make a difference going forward.