So I just got out of a relationship and I miss the girl a lot and am willing to get back with her and just take things slow. But at the time she's not even ready for dating or relationships because of how broken she's been from all her relationships.

So I'm just going to give her the space she needs and I just don't feel like holding on but I like her so much but I want to start talking to this girl I used to like to try to just move on for now. Bu the thing is, I only talked to this girl off and on and it wasn't much and I don have any classes or see her anywere in this high school year even though she's around.

So would the best way to approach her is just to maybe send a message through facebook to say hey and ask how she's doing? Or would this be a little random and wierd? If so, what can I do?