I am sorry your mom is not supportive of you leaving. And I understand you do not want your baby to grow up without a dad. But - at this rate - you might end up loosing the baby from the stress and if you do deliver a healthy lovely baby and stay with the father - your child will have such stressful life. Do you really want your kids to grow up seeing his father abuse you? This will have a very negative affect on your relationship with them and on their well being.

Does your mom know the type of things he does?