Okay, this tells me that your mom does not know about domestic violence. Obviously someone needs to tell you...do you know the number 1 non-medical cause of death for pregnant women? Yeah, it's the father of the child. Look that up if you want, you will find it is true. So no, we were not cheering you on to leave for a better life. We were doing it so you and the baby would have a life. This isn't a joke. Please get out of there as soon.