Ascension, thank you for that assement of what its like to struggle with Bp, Im trying to learn about this for a friend and your post is so helpful. Your comment about not wanting to get close so as your afraid of it falling apart and losing us struck a big chord. Is there anything the loved one of someone who may be struggling with this can do to show the person there not dangerous to us, that we will support them?? That they wont lose us?