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Old Mar 14, 2010, 11:24 PM
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My mother hoards everything.. I keep telling her she has OCD but she says she's not crazy (shows how much she knows about my problems let alone her own). I'm always trying desperately to teach her how to organize and throw stuff away or have a yard sale to get rid of junk but she just keeps it. keeps EVERYTHING. Trash is everywhere.

Is there any hope that I can some how change my mother's ways or is she going to be like this her whole life. It's so stressful on all of us having to live in clutter and junk. I've realized when a house is clean it feels like you can breath easy and relax.

Her main problem is paper clutter and magazines and news papers. she also keeps broken things thinking one day she'll fix them. I've also realized as she's been getting older she's been getting worse.

(I think I have OCD also but not with hoarding, anymore at least... I check things constantly and I have intrusive thoughts. My grandmother also used to hoard trash.)

Should I just ignore her issue with hoarding? It's just I know it's stressing us all out because there is so much junk but it's not interfering with our lives that much. We just lose things easily in the mess or trip over a large pile of news papers
Thats how my dad is he keeps every junk he finds like old bills and If someone throw away any thing like theire old junk then he gets mad and go get it out of the trash yes I said out of the trash lol.Magazines and news paper old medicines bottle .And I just stop messing with him about It cause he dont listens and it stresses me with my ocd and panic attacks.So if you dont wanna get stress out just leave it alone.I dont have the hoarding just the compulsivesness good luck
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