I am sitting here now crying! you guys are the greatest! Bethy those calls meant so much to me since most of my family didn't even bother to pick up the phone. actually when you called I think I was out of it. I am bruised big time bad on my arms. due to all the pain meds I was on over the weekend from that wire in my bladder I was dehydrated something terrible so when they went to put in iv's they blew the veins. I am still really sore but doing ok...still have my cath bag in my back....just wish I could take me a shower!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! yuck thanks again guys..I love you all