Lynn,

You're right. I am grateful that there is someone else there and it does take the pressure off, in a way. I"m sorry that you are alone. In my marriage, I've often felt like a single parent, usually with hubby as one of the kids, but sometimes because he was working far away. Lately, he's actually been very supportive, responsible and helpful in many ways, so I really kick myself that I would even consider leaving. Of course, that doesn't include his drinking problems - or my guilt that he drinks because I'm so darned difficult to live with lately.