you know on top of feeling lonely, my hubby wants to open the marriage and he feels he's bi too, he says he loves me and i him (married 20 yrs). but i just dont know how to handle this also, i said ok but I have never, and he says he hasnt , i've told him im not comfortable anymore with this and i'd like to stop even before something happens, he says ok but i dont trust when i see he's been on sites. I know I should of never said ok, but thats a little late now. i just wanted to get that off my chest, I've noticed writing on here about my problems has given me some strength and makes me feel better at the moment. Thanks