I am a 35 year old female. Over the past two months I have discovered my guy has repeatedly betrayed our relationship by secretly using porn (videos, magazines) and most recently I discovered where he, for the past 8 months was sexting, exchanging nude photos, and talking on the phone at all hours of the night with his 2nd ex-wife. This DUMBFOUNDED me because we (I THOUGHT) had a great relationship, the sex has always been amazing (and I litterally have NEVER said "no" to him)...and he SAYS he loves me. I have been DEVASTATED by all of these findings. He wants to stay together and get help, but I'm just not sure I can. I love him, but am starting to wonder if the man I fell in love with even exhists in this man. Other than these things (and I realize its enough) he has been so good and loving to me. He's been my bestfriend, my lover, my soulmate. Any advice would be appreciated.