My boyfriend and I talked last night and he told me that he realized he doesn't really love me... he said that he really deeply cares about me and he wishes he loved me but even though he doesn't he doesn't want to break up because he thinks over time he might grow to love me.
I want to stay with him because:
He makes me happy.
He could eventually grow to love me
It would break my heart if we broke up
I love him
He's the only one I want to be with.

I want to break up with him because:
He doesn't love me
If he never grows to love me that will make it worse
I could find somebody else
His confusion is just making it worse, and it just seems to get worse and worse.

I really don't know what to do. Unfortunately, what I truly want and what is best for me may not be the same thing.