While I am doing better after seeing my T yesterday, the way my mother is dealing with my father is driving me up the wall. I respect her wishes to think she can make my father well again. I get frustrated though when she stops giving him oxygen, because she thinks he needs to improve his muscles for breathing. I am afraid she is hastening his death instead prolonging his life when she does this. I found out a few days ago that she does not give him pain meds because she does not believe in them. I am just as afraid to tell my sisters about the oxygen because they will only get upset with her and try to get him into a hospice facility. Neither my father or mother would do well under those conditions. It is hard enough to see my father dying, but seeing all this is driving me nuts. Any suggestions would be appreciated.