(((Leacon))) - I'm sorry this is happening. I thought your father was in a hospice facility? I think you should tell your sisters. Have you asked your father if he wants pain medication? If he does then he should have it - it doesn't matter if your mom doesn't believe in it. If he's terminal he needs it - it's not like he'll become addicted to it. Sounds like your mom isn't being objective. Hospice is a caring facility so maybe he would be better there. Could one of your sisters move in and help your dad. I would be concerned if he's in terrible pain.