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Old Mar 17, 2010, 01:18 AM
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While sex if often on the mind of young people say between 18 and 35 - it should never be the main need from day to day... when this happens I would say it is time to seek professional help for what ever it is that you are actually using sex for - look at it as though sex is your drug of choice and you need help getting off it... people do and can become addicted to sex - the chemical high it gives from the hormones that are released into the body during an orgasm.

I am a 42 year old female - been with the same man for 27 years (married to him 24 of those years) and while we did have sex about four times a day when we first got together and for many years after we got married - we never let the desire for sex get in the way of school, work or our family... we enjoyed hanging out with our friends and visiting others... sex came later.