Peaches, maybe I am thinking of the wrong person, but didn't you try to do this a few months ago. I thought you had this email thing worked out with your t so you had some boundaries that were workable for both you and your t. (Sorry if I'm thinking of the wrong person; it's hard to keep everyone straight.)

I think your plan to not expect a reply unless you specifically ask for one is reasonable. Why do you have to take it to no emails at all?