I am trying to relate but I cant....

Children do not ask to come into this world and its our job to protect them as much as possible and yes its a sacrifice, and yes its one that never goes away.

We have a friend who's wife left him and the children some of whom was not even his she had them in a previous relationship. Slowly some of them have gone to the mum as they need her simple as that....

I wont and am not having a go at you for your choice its just I really can not understand it just as I cant understand my friends wife's attitude either.

Maybe you can explain more so I will ?