((((grizmom))))Take a deep breathe and slow down. You don't have to meet anyone's expectations but your own.

He doesn't know you. He can't make you do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. That being said, don't give up on the program just because he isn't being sensitive to your needs or getting to know you well before making suggestions. Give it some time...see what is offered and what you want to accept from the program. Most of all, don't use this as an opportunity to feel bad about yourself. THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT!!!

Feel better...