Its like everyday when I pick my kids up from school or when we are at home all day or even go anywhere my kids are constantly fighting and its getting to where I can't handle it anymore. And its like they just don't care. They are 8 & 6. I know they are going into that phase but I don't know how much more I can handle. And they don't listen to me when I tell them to stop and that I can't handle it. What do I do to get them to see what they are doing to me is not good. I'm desperate for help!