he told me he has impulsive behavior and to not listen to my friends...that he bought the gift because he wants to help me with school...I dunno what is with me...that I attract men like this...there must be something wrong with me as well...when we went on a first date he bought me 300 dollars worth of clothes and told me not to tell any of my friends at work because they might get jealous...everything happened so fast...no one warned me...and I think he wanted everyone at work to know that we are dating