View Single Post
 
Old Mar 18, 2010, 01:13 AM
AAAAA's Avatar
AAAAA AAAAA is offline
Elder
 
Member Since: Oct 2007
Location: Midwest
Posts: 5,042
I’m not saying who you should or shouldn’t date. In your posts, even positive attributes seem to … put you off. If you do continue dating him, it’s important, imo, to set up some boundaries to protect both your feelings. If something feels wrong to you, then it is.

Other than the gift giving, which is a sad attempt to buy your affection, I haven’t seen anything that I personally would find negative. He sounds kind, considerate, and well-mannered.

I know this is a difficult medium to communicate in. There are no nuisances in your voice or body language to interpret. If I may ask, what specifically is the problem here? There are quite a few inferences but nothing stated point blank.
__________________
I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.