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Originally Posted by AAAAA
I’m not saying who you should or shouldn’t date. In your posts, even positive attributes seem to … put you off. If you do continue dating him, it’s important, imo, to set up some boundaries to protect both your feelings. If something feels wrong to you, then it is.
Other than the gift giving, which is a sad attempt to buy your affection, I haven’t seen anything that I personally would find negative. He sounds kind, considerate, and well-mannered.
I know this is a difficult medium to communicate in. There are no nuisances in your voice or body language to interpret. If I may ask, what specifically is the problem here? There are quite a few inferences but nothing stated point blank.
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the problem is that I needed to talk to people to get some opinions...I don't have many friends to talk to...and this is why I come here...I jsut wanted feedback and thoughts...I didn't udnerstand why he was buying expensive gifts