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Old Mar 18, 2010, 06:16 AM
Slothrop Slothrop is offline
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Originally Posted by NuckingFutz View Post
Okay, private email. They are a lot like diaries. To the owner it is a growth tool, to anyone else it is a poisonous snake ready to strike. Now hopefully you have learned this lesson. And since you stated that things are rough - both of you have mentioned a lot of resentment, perhaps marrage counsiling would be in order. Ask her to dump her guy friend and ask her to help your marriage. keep posting and good luck to both of you.
I had already learned my lesson, NF. And I went and did something dumb anyway.

If she read my diaries, she'd be pretty ticked off!! She has a right to her private communications.

I should clarify about the friend, it's a girl friend, not a guy friend. I'd be a lot more upset if it was a guy friend, I admit. But yes, marriage counseling is probably a good idea, as evidenced by my long reply to Saluki...