Hello & Welcome, Mark0529! I'm glad you found the site. I hope it proves useful and uplifting to you.
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Originally Posted by mark0529
...i feel like my life is ruined. I basically had it all and ruined it.
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Personal Philosophy
(no need to agree): The only way a person can ruin their life is by surrendering to despair and taking it.
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Originally Posted by mark0529
...I feel so lost and hopeless in the world. I do not know what to do anymore I feel like I can't deal with the day in and day out struggle I live in.
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Good.
No, it's not "good" that you feel lost and hopeless, but it's good you
acknowledge you are feeling lost and hopeless.
I believe your spirit is telling you that you need help, and there's no shame in seeking help. I hope your situation allows you to seek professional help (counsel, therapy, medical). If that is not currently possible, seek informal help (you've already started that by coming here).
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Originally Posted by mark0529
...I'm stuck in yesteryear...
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Maybe this can serve as a starting point - getting unstuck from yesteryear, finding ways to reground and redefine yourself in the present.
Mark, please feel free to post as much as you want. Many listening hearts are here, and maybe a few of them will have the right words for you.
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My dog
mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.