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Originally Posted by salukigirl
I'm sorry if I offended you earlier. It did sound like you were belittling her problems but you didn't initially say all the other stuff going on.
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No, it's perfectly OK...it was late, I got into a bit of a writing tizzy. I really did not allude to enough of the background in my first post. I guess I had not meant to get into that much detail, but once I got going...well, sometimes I go a little overboard.
I didn't consider this last night, but my pdoc weaned me off lithium a couple of weeks ago...it's possible there was a manic edge to my writing there, maybe obsessive too. I need to keep an eye on that.
I wish I had more trust in the person my wife vented to. That particular friend tends to pass on a lot of secrets, be really judgmental, etc. With someone else, who knows, it might be OK. My wife and I actually see the same pdoc, and I am fine with that...
You are right, we need to work on the relationship...a lot...