You did a good job of putting the trigger information up for everyone here. Looking into a possible better forum to move this to in order to get feedback from other's who may have had imilar experiences.

It was very good that your daughter came to you & its good what you told her. The teacher should have some training on who to talk to about things like this also. It's important to have investigation about what actually happened.....it's equally important not to accuse anyone until all evidence is in......no suppositions & no assumptions is cases like this are safe....it could do as much damage to a good person as we hope it does put away the person who might have. We definitely need to be sensitive in all cases & teachers have some training usually in how to handle things like this........teacher would know if child protetive services is to be brought in also & its best if it's under the teacher's & schools control unless the parents are very receptive to what you say. With the least bit of denial. I would't push, but go directly to the teacher (which you are going to do anyway it sounds.)

Seems I have read a post in the last 5 years here about someone who went through a similar situation. It's not an easy situation to know exactly how to handle....very sensitive