Blue--I'm glad that action is being taken on this situation, and that it's happening quickly. You handled it appropriately. About your daughter. Is there a social worker affiliated with the school who could talk to her? Do you think ftt might have suggestions as how to handle it with her? It's good that you have the kind of relationship with your daughter that she could come to you and tell you what her friend told her. What you told her about private parts is good too. I would just emphasize to her that she can ask you questions and talk about her feelings at any time.