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Originally Posted by HZ3006
My boyfriend and I talked last night and he told me that he realized he doesn't really love me... he said that he really deeply cares about me and he wishes he loved me but even though he doesn't he doesn't want to break up because he thinks over time he might grow to love me.
I want to stay with him because:
He makes me happy.
He could eventually grow to love me
It would break my heart if we broke up
I love him
He's the only one I want to be with.
I want to break up with him because:
He doesn't love me
If he never grows to love me that will make it worse
I could find somebody else
His confusion is just making it worse, and it just seems to get worse and worse.
I really don't know what to do. Unfortunately, what I truly want and what is best for me may not be the same thing.
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True love happens. Its not something you can learn, or make happen. Depending on how long you have already been together can effect it too. If you have been together less then 6 months, the relationship is still new but he should know by then if he will love you or not. If it has been over 6 months or a few years, dont waste your time waiting because if he doesnt love you after that long that means he could possibly love someone else who comes along which will hurt more since you waited. I understand you want to be with him and only him but if his love is not there wouldnt you want someone who loves you and wants you so much from beginning to end? If he doesnt love you now, the relationship might of just been based on lust which many guys do.