Plus I think sometimes we forget that, as humans, everything we do is for personal benefit. Sure, we might like to think that we do things out of the kindness of our hearts, but it still makes us feel good. That's why we do anything for anybody. So it's hard to sit back and think "now what am I getting out of this?" or "what is she getting out of this?". Neither one of you wants to let the other person down but at the same time, we have to get something out of a relationship to feel that its worth it.

So thats my question, what are you guys getting out of this relationship? Or what would you LIKE to get out of it? It's just not plausible to expect things from someone for nothing in return (that goes for both parties, I'm not trying to pick on you or anything)