I have been quite frustrated at the lack of information available about female offenders and normally just read the forums but when I read your post I wanted to add that I have found a couple of places that have some help for survivors of female offenders. Being new I am not sure if it is appropriate or not to place links so I will play it safe and not do so. The one website is called female-offenders with the dash and the other is called what about when mom is the abuser? Other than that you might try male survivors also. I hope that is of some help to you.