Good point, flora. I used to be really upset about porn until my ex said that when he watches it, it makes him want me, not the women on the screen. And he did say that he would try and take some of what he saw in them and try to please me. My current bf doesn't really watch porn at all but the only reason for that I think is because he has some pictures of me..... Have you attempted to give your husband any sexy pictures of yourself and seeing if he would rather look at those instead of porn but just doesn't have any? Men are just overall very visual creatures but from what you describe it does sound like he has some issues with sexuality in general.