He said he CAN'T tell you. What jobs are there that require secrecy.....I know my cousin started in the army (he joined right after 911) and worked his way up (he already had a PhD in psychology) so now he works for intelligence in Wash. DC. All anyone really knows is that he works for the Gov't and he travels all over the world but he literally can't tell anyone anything. His wife just has to trust him fully. Because his job is pretty in secrecy so we all know that he doesn't SOMETHING but even us, in his family, have no idea what he really does. You need to decide if you can believe him. If you truely believe him then he will let you in one step at a time.