Well... my wife and my mother-in-law ended up having a talk this morning. Things seemed to straighten out, but of course it still just taxes the relationship we did have that much more. Last night, my mother-in-law made a comment to the extent... I didnt care about them... because I can't stand to be around them. I dont go down there if they invite me. Which she is right, I dont go down there, and I do have a problem being around there. But its a trigger... and I dont think she can understand that. Everytime I try and go down there, they end up bickering... losing their tempers... thats how it goes. I can't take that. It reminds me to much of my mother and father fighting when I was a kid. She says she walks on egg shells when I am there because she knows I cant take the fighting, but it still doesnt work. They still fight, and it still triggers. The anxiety starts building up, start to get hot flashes,.... itchy all over...and then I excuse myself and leave. She knows its because she is bickering with her husband or HER mother-in-law, but she still takes it that I cant stand to be around her.

I have decided that having her on my facebook is not the greatest thing. I am going to take her off of my facebook today, but no matter what, I still cant take her out of my life, and I still cant make her understand that it isnt her that I dont like, its the fighting.