Since this man has lied to you about everything since the beginning why would you believe him about the sex offense. I have found that most people that lie, lie all the time, about everything. I do not see the benefit in lying because the truth eventually comes out. I wish there were more people who feel like I do about lying. We are who we are, and that should be something you can be proud of. If it is not we should change it. It is kind of like cheating at a game. You can say you won, but you know you did not. I dont like being lied to, therefore I do not lie. Definately dont understand why so many people do. If you do not care about this man very much, consider yourself lucy and end the relationship.