Yes first marriage.

I left when he was 11 I took him with me he has ADHD ODD OCD poss BPD he is very aggressive and hyperactive. Failure to thrive as well when a child also milk intolerant.

He was with me till he was fifteen when I tried to kill myself not being able to cope with things anymore. He went back to his father but soon was being arrested continually from shop lifting to mugging to fighting anyone and everyone.

During his first prison stay I left to move to the other end of the Country he knows has been told countless times he has a home with me anytime which he refuses to take.

He has spent most of the past four years in prison for which he also now blames me ! I am dumbfounded to be honest.