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Originally Posted by flora_poste
But the pornography thing... well, if porn is cheating then I'd have to say at least 95% of men are cheaters. No matter how good a guy is, no matter how satisfied you keep him, he's still got a pervy side and is going to enjoy his private time looking at naked naughtiness.
Porn isn't a replacement for you or even a threat, it's just a medium to help us escape for a moment and release.
I guarantee that the second he's done doing his business, he doesn't give any of the girls he's watching or looking at a second thought.
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Just wanted to add...
While what has been stated above is true for some men - there are the other men that cannot just look enjoy and walk away... these are the bf and husbands that become addicted to porn to the point that it does replace their need and even want for their lady friend - hence the part of porn that is not liked and that leaves a female feeling as though her man is cheating on her "for she has been replaced" by a sexier younger image that she can no longer compete with if only in the mind of her porn obsessed man.
I speak from experience on this on matter from helping my own husband through his ten year porn addiction - and from surveying and helping over a 1000 people seek help when they found themselves on either side of the porn addiction business.
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As with Life... everything must be done in moderation and should never replace a loved one (bf gf spouse lover partner).
