It sounds to me like maybe the MD is taking it quite seriously. Tell me this, if you didn't want him to have a reaction, then why did you even tell him how you actually incurred the wound? I think you wanted him to know, and I think on some level you really wanted him to talk to your T. Is it possible that maybe your T isn't taking your cutting as seriously as you'd like him to? From what I've read, it really seems to me that you wanted them to connect. . .you could have easily just said in your note, "I DO have a counselor" but you made it a point to include your T's card, which I am sure has his telephone number on it.

Some part of you is probably disappointed that the doc didn't respond in a more caring way (to your way of thinking) but I think this doc did an amazing thing by reaching out to your T and caring enough to make the phone call in the first place.