FOr the life of me, I cannot understand why any woman would want to know the "why" of his lies - he was in prison for child sex abuse for heavens sake.(Perhaps thats the loving, caring part of him) A lie about ones age, ok - so he was trying to "reel her in", a lie about being abandoned shortly after birth, perhaps to win her sympathy, lied about his occupation, perhaps to make himself look better than he is (NOTHING wrong with fork lift operators - so why lie about it?)............again, IMHO - if his lips are moving, he is lying..........RUN !!!!!!!!!!