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Old Mar 21, 2010, 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted by TheByzantine View Post
After awhile when I was hiding out in isolation, my friends just stopped inviting me.

“One who shows signs of mental aberration is, inevitably, perhaps, but cruelly, shut off from familiar, thoughtless intercourse, partly excommunicated; his isolation is unwittingly proclaimed to him on every countenance by curiosity, indifference, aversion, or pity, and in so far as he is human enough to need free and equal communication and feel the lack of it, he suffers pain and loss of a kind and degree which others can only faintly imagine, and for the most part ignore.” ~Charles Horton Cooley
What Byzantine said!

It sucks, but it might be worth trying to reconnect with them. My friends back off a bit when I isolate as they don't know what to do/say, but they're always glad when I come back out of hiding again. I'll bet yours will act the same. If not, It hurts, but it's better in the long run to prune friends who hurt you (toxic friends I call them) out of your life - you're worth more than that!

*Willow*
Thanks for this!
googley, lynn09