Wow! I don't know what else to say. I have recently found out that my son has taken dxm and found shrooms in his room growing. It's the 2nd time in 2 months that his father and I have addressed this problem. Before it was alcohol. He was an honor roll student up to graduation a couple of years ago. After 1 year of living on his own, he got into some legal trouble that amazingly enough we were able to pay $$ for a good lawyer and keep him out of jail. He is on probation and screwing up already. He's back home but I have a 10yr old son. I have told him that I can't allow him to live here if he choses to indulge in this behavior. At the time that we confront him, our world is filled with I'm sorry and I'll do betters but a bit of time passes and it's back to the same. I don't want my boyfriend to feel like I'm making him choose between my son and his but.....what do I do? I divorced my ex-husband for drug use and my stepson knows this. I'm a wreck trying to do the right thing and not abandon him at the same time.