Ya, as I mentioned I am on meds myself, and know their value once you find the right one. Everytime he gets really down, he swears they're not working and he's not going to take them anymore. Then I inform he is and he usually agrees. It's interesting because he can call one minute and me on fire about how crappy his life is and how worthless he is and he isn't going to x, y or z anymore. Then the next day or even later in the day he wants to go deal with whatever those were. An example, he has some fines due for his spare car and he's like "what's the point in paying them because I never have free time to enjoy anything I might as well sleep at work." Next day he'll call and be like "let's go on Wednesday and get the car stuff done." So I normally take the tirades with a grain of salt other than knowing that he's really hurting inside.